Salsa Caliente

I’m about to go on a second date with this guy and I’m really really nervous because of a few things:

1. I think I like him but I don’t want to find out that I don’t really like him that much and have to back off and start the “dating process” again.

2. I think he likes me but I don’t want to find out that he doesn’t really like me that much and he has to back off and I have to get over my rejection.

3. I’m afraid we both will end up really liking each other and that’s the worst because that opens ten other fears like will his friends like me? his parents? will my friends and family like him? What about when we get further? Like, things like sex and committed relationships and being “in love” and affection and all those kinds of things that I truly have no clue about.

4. Everything seems to perfect right now, like, we seem to “match up” in every possible way which means that this is totally going to blow up in my face, isn’t it?